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Thanksgiving {2012)

We’ve had a nice, low key Thanksgiving weekend.  The imminent arrival of kid #6 has proved to be a nice excuse to just relax around the house.  The firm I work for sent all the employees a Greenberg Smoked Turkey (which was uh-maz-ing) – so that took care of the major food item.  The wife whipped up some awesome stuffing, sweet potato casserole and some fresh corn on the cob!  We pulled out our nicest paper plates & had a great meal!

The wife had an idea to create a Thanksgiving branch filled with leaves.  Each leaf contained something we are thankful for.  She’s so darn creative!

Here are a few pictures from our weekend!

I had some wall space in my office that I wanted to fill and thought of a cool (well…cool to me) little craft. If you know me you know that I’m a music guy – especially when it comes to tunes from the 80′s. So I thought it would be fun to identify the top albums that impacted me as a kid, then chase down the vinyl records and find a way to display them in this open wall space.

After about 3 weeks of sifting through records at several music stores and bidding on Ebay auctions I’d collected the five records that most impacted me as a kid. Let me clarify that I’m not claiming that these are the best albums ever….I’m just saying they are the ones that had a major impact on me personally. So – first the finished product, then the albums and then the craft to display them.

By the way, I’d love to hear what you would list as your top albums!

The Fished Product

The Top Five Albums

1) The Police – Synchroncity Album. Released in 1983 – I was 9 years old and I was in love with this band and with this album…and apparently I wasn’t the only one as it sold over 8 million copies in the U.S. This album is full of great songs: Synchronicity II, Every Breath You Take, King of Pain, Wrapped Around Your Finger & Tea in the Sahara were my favorites. This was really my first introduction into rock music & I was DEVASTATED when they broke up in 1986. So much so that in an overwhelming moment of anger & grief I ripped down the Synchronicity poster hanging in my room.

2) Stryper – Soldiers Under Command. Released in 1985. I wasn’t turned on to Stryper until about 1987 when their To Hell with the Devil album was released (which sold over 1 million copies and was the first christian metal album to hit platinum status). However, once I discovered them and started listening to their music & pretty quickly found myself wearing out my copy of Soldiers Under Command. This was my first real exposure to metal (albeit – glam / hair band metal) and Stryper was also the first “real” rock concert I attended. They played in Washington, DC in February of 1987 with Loudness & TNT opening for them. Favorite songs from this album are: Soldiers Under Command, Makes Me Wanna Sing, First Love and Battle Hymn of the Republic.

3) Def Leppard – Pyromania. Released in 1983. This album entered my musical consciousness around 1984-1985 and totally consumed me. It’s loaded with great songs – my favorites are: Photograph (still one of my all time favorite songs), Too Late for Love, Die Hard the Hunger, Foolin’, Rock of Ages & Billy’s Got a Gun. This album sold over 10 million copies in the U.S. Although I never got to see Def Leppard play live during their prime, Missy & I did go see them play a few years back at a venue in Dallas.

4) White Lion – Pride. Released in 1987. White Lion is, in my humble opinion, one of the most under-rated hair bands of the 80′s. They had a string of really great albums but for me the Pride record represents their finest work – it sold about 2 million copies in the U.S. I wore this tape out – rewinding and fast forwarding to get to my favorite tunes – Don’t Give Up, Lady of the Valley, Wait, Tell Me & When the Children Cry. If you are a product of the 80′s you’ve probably heard the songs Wait (which made it to #8 on the billboard 100) & When the Children Cry (which made it to #3 on the billboard 100).

5) Iron Maiden – Somewhere in Time. This is number five on the list but number one in my heart. This is, far and away, my favorite band and my favorite album which contains my favorite song of all time. Released in 1986 it has sold over 1 million copies in the U.S. This record was my introduction into Iron Maiden and in instantly fell in love with their sound, their lyrical style and their album covers. I can’t even tell you how many times I’ve listened to this album – pretty much every song is a winner. As I mentioned earlier – it contains my favorite song of all time – Wasted Years. Other fantastic songs are Caught Somewhere in Time (which crescendos into one of the best peak points of any song around the 4:45 mark), The Loneliness of the Long Distance Runner (great song for your workout) and Alexander the Great. This album proved surprisingly difficult to obtain…I had to do a last second Ebay bid to secure my copy. And although I never got to see Iron Maiden in concert as a teenager I have gotten to see them twice in the last couple of years – and they still put on a great show!

The Craft

While tooling around Home Depot looking for some way to display the albums I stumbled across a 6′ 6″ oak reducer. This is a piece of hardwood flooring that you would use when you want to transition from wood floor to carpet or tile. It’s the piece that transitions the wood flooring down to the ground so you don’t just stub your toe when you go from room to room. Because it’s a wood flooring piece it had a nice groove in it where you would connect it to the tongue of the piece next to it. That groove would be perfect to set the record in. So…I bought a piece. It was too wide for my taste so I used my table saw to rip about an inch off of it. I used my chop saw to trim a bit off each end to give it an angle. After some sanding to soften the edges I applied some stain (same stain they used on our wood floors) and then drilled some holes that would allow me to sink the screw and apply a plug to make it look a little nicer. Excluding a day to allow the stain to dry the project took not more than a couple of hours. Here are some pictures:

Yesterday one of the elders at our church, Kyle Thompson preached on discipleship. I was really challenged by his words – not just because of what he said but because I know Kyle well enough to know that what he says and what he does are one in the same.  He is a man of tremendous integrity & humility so when he speaks I tend to pay extra attention.  This morning I spent a little time reviewing my notes from his sermon (which I encourage you to listen to or watch) and I got caught up reviewing one of the passages he touched on yesterday, specifically Mark 8:34.  I thought I’d share my musings from this morning…and can I be honest and say the first point below is the one I find myself tripping over most often.

Here is the verse:  And calling the crowd to him with his disciples, he said to them, “If anyone would come after me, let him deny himself and take up his cross and follow me.” (Mark 8:34)

Jesus makes an open invitation…anyone can follow him. But Jesus wants you and I to know that this is no ordinary game of follow the leader. Following Jesus involves three, life-altering things:

  1. Denying {One’s self} – “Let him deny himself…” - this involves saying “no” to oneself. This denying one’s self is not a one-time decision. Jesus is calling for a radical self-lowering that continues day by day until our life is consummated in death (cf. Philippians 2:1ff – Jesus emptied himself and took the form of a servant). The life of discipleship is one that involves learning to say “no” to things in my heart & in my life that are either:
    1. Counterproductive - there are many things that I could do; that is things that are not prohibited by the disciple of Christ (i.e. 1 Corinthians 6:12 – all things are lawful, but not all things are helpful), but prove to be a distraction to me personally.
    2. Wicked - there are things that no follower of Jesus should engage in (i.e. Galatians 5:19 – the works of the flesh).

    In both realms there is real temptation to avoid self-denial. Our flesh rages against the Spirit (Galatians 5:16ff – the desires of the flesh are against the Spirit). Even in matters that are not explicitly sinful there is a spirit of self-entitlement always present – always trying to push comfort above Christ-likeness. Thoughts of what I deserve…what I’ve earned…what appears reasonable flood the heart. But the call to follow Jesus is a call to deny oneself of anything – good or bad, that stands in the way.

  2. Embracing {One’s cross} – “and take up his cross…” - this following Jesus is no easy road. Not only is there a life of self-denial; there is a life of suffering. It’s one thing to embrace a life that involves saying “no” to certain things; but it is an entirely different matter to embrace a life that embraces suffering. Put simply – following Jesus involves persecution (cf. 2 Timothy 3:12 – all who desire to live a godly life will be persecuted). There is simply nothing in the New Testament that indicates that the believer will experience a life of ease, comfort and wealth. Nothing. My perspective is so skewed because I was born in the U.S.A. in a period of unprecedented wealth and prosperity. I have come to believe that this is my God-given right and nothing could be further from the truth. The norm for the believer throughout history is persecution and suffering.
  3. Following {One’s Savior} - “and follow me” – following necessarily implies that I am not the leader. Following is admitting that there is someone (or something) in front of me that I believe is a better guide than me. Jesus makes it clear that the proper place of the believer is behind Him. He is the head of the church and in Him all things hold together (cf. Colossians 1:17-20 – He is the head of the body, the church). It makes no sense to say that I follow Jesus if I am hell bent on making every decision in my life. That is not following. It is fine to wrestle through the question of “do I believe Jesus is worth following?” It is another thing to have come to the conclusion that He is worth following but to continue to live as though He is not (cf. Luke 6:46 – why do you call me Lord, Lord and do not do what I tell you?) . Either He is the leader, the Head, the Savior – or He’s not. If I say He is then I should humbly take my proper place – which is not in the front.

I discovered this little note on the back up my truck – traced by the fingers of one of my offspring.  This made my day and I realized that, in my own little mind, this sort of represents my life – a microcosm of sorts.

My truck is dirty – really, really dirty.  I can’t remember the last time it was washed.  It is dented and dinged.  There is a scrape on the passenger side – a reminder of a poor decision to turn too close to the fence.  The truck bed bears the marks of 10 years of hauling life – washing machines, lumber, boxes, refrigerators, tools, sofas, and many other various and sundry items. Every now and again I’ll feel the transmission slip just a little bit. The truck is still useful, but it’s filled with imperfections.

Sometimes I feel like the truck. Worn out. Dirty. Imperfect. And yet…like my Chevy – there is an “I love you” traced across my life in big letters. Flawed as I am (and believe me – I.Am.Really.Flawed.) there are people in my life who remind me daily that I am loved.

  • My bride of almost 14 years – faithful, steady & beautiful.
  • Five, soon to be six, kiddos – loving unconditionally, forgiving and awe-inspiring.
  • A handful of deep friendships – surviving many a relational earthquake with me, more often than not, at the epicenter.
  • A Savior who relentlessly pursues – in spite of my rebellion, my failures and my relapses.

This dirty truck was just what I needed to remind me of how good I’ve got it.

Sunrise
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Loan disbursement
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Vocational school
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Loan group
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Going a little National Geographic on us!
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Matt getting his run on!
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Finish the day with a Skype call to the wife & kiddos!
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This weekend Missy & I were able to outsource the kiddos & the dog and sneak away to Virginia for my 20 year reunion.  With kid #6 coming in November and me leaving for South Sudan this evening we figured this was an opportune time to get away.  We got to stay with my brother which was awesome (except that his sweet wife Paula was out of town)!

It’s been 10 years since we were last in Woodbridge so we took the opportunity to experience some nostalgia by visiting my old neighborhood, my old high school AND my old junior high & then we had our little reunion get together lats night in Crystal City.

A couple of observations:

  1. The high school & middle school looked a lot smaller than I remember them
  2. My friends from high school have gotten OLD!
  3. I am thankful for a really good high school experience – not perfect by any stretch…but I’ve got good memories.

Here are some pictures of our weekend away:

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