In some of the developing countries I’ve traveled there is a form of “adoption” that is generally accepted but which stands in opposition to the biblical concept.
In Haiti it is called “restavec”….but it exists in other parts of the world. For a simple point of reference here is how Wikipedia defines it:
A restavec (or restavek); is a child in Haiti who is sent by their parents to work for a host household as a domestic servant because the parents lack the resources required to support the child. In some cases, the child is treated well. However, in other cases, the child is abused. The term restavek is sometimes used to refer to any child staying with a host family, but usually refers specifically to those who are abused (emphasis mine).
For those who know the biblical concept of adoption this may be obvious. However, it’s been good for my heart to revisit why the generally accepted definition above does not align itself with Scripture. Let me share a couple of biblical truths that convince me that I am not a restavec in God’s family:
- Our position as adopted children is not based on what we have done (Ephesians 1:4-10, 2:1-10, Romans 5:8). Our invitation into the family of God is not based on works, resume, educational background, ethnicity, income level or family of origin. The invitation goes out to all the world based on the grace & love of God demonstrated most perfectly through the death & resurrection of Jesus.
- Our position as adopted children makes us fellow heir with Christ, not slaves (Romans 8:12-16) – If we have Christ then we have His Spirit dwelling in us. And this Spirit confirms that we are children of God. If we are children then we are fellow heirs with Christ, if indeed we suffer with him. Focus on two words from verse 17 – “fellow heirs”. The difference between a co-heir and a slave are numerous.
- Our position as adopted children is not based on what we can do or what we will do. This is expressed in the positive and the negative:
- The positive (1 Corinthians 1:26-31): Our adoption is not based on what we will contribute positively to the kingdom of God. Our future impact is not the basis by which God brings us into the family. In fact, God has chosen the weak things of this world to shame the strong. God does not need us to accomplish His plans.
- The negative (Romans 6 & 8:31-39): Our adoption is not based on our ability to maintain good behavior until death. The wickedness that dwells in our hearts even after we meet Christ & have been adopted does not remove us from the family. Our lives are a process of becoming more like our brother Christ over time as we daily die to our pride, our self-exaltation & our greed.
As I sit here out on the roof of the guest house with the overwhelming brokenness – both around me in Haiti & deep within my own heart I am especially grateful that because of the work of Christ, God does not treat me like a restavec.
